{"id":2450,"date":"2016-05-30T00:01:45","date_gmt":"2016-05-30T04:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/?p=2450"},"modified":"2016-06-02T08:01:49","modified_gmt":"2016-06-02T12:01:49","slug":"memorial-day-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/archives\/2450","title":{"rendered":"Memorial Day, 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_2451\" class=\"thumbnail wp-caption alignleft\" style=\"width: 181px\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2451\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/MemDay2016.png?resize=181%2C120&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Memorial Day - 2016\" width=\"181\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/MemDay2016.png?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/MemDay2016.png?w=650&amp;ssl=1 650w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 181px) 100vw, 181px\" \/><figcaption class=\"caption wp-caption-text\">Let us pause, and reflect.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Today we find ourselves honoring our fallen heroes, and rightfully so. On the last Monday of May, this great assimilation of cultures, personalities, and beliefs pauses to remember those who have died to give us, the living, the freedoms we enjoy (and take for granted) today.<\/p>\n<p>Memorial Day, as we know it, hasn&#8217;t always been the federal holiday that it is now.\u00a0 It was born in the aftermath of the &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.history.com\/topics\/american-civil-war\">War Between the States<\/a>.&#8221; The first official day of remembrance, May 5, 1866; was held in Waterloo, NY.\u00a0 Businesses closed and the town&#8217;s residents decorated the graves of soldiers.\u00a0 I invite each of you to read a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.history.com\/topics\/holidays\/memorial-day-history\">history of Memorial day<\/a>, via the History Channel&#8217;s website. Memorial Day wouldn&#8217;t be complete without a word about taps. \u00a0Taps is played at virtually every military funeral. \u00a0There is a fantastic write up (written in 2012, for the 150th anniversary of the tune) in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jsonline.com\/news\/wisconsin\/for-military-buglers-taps-is-always-emotional-4d5ca5l-154875105.html\">Milwaukee Sentinel<\/a> by Meg Jones. \u00a0The history channel has a good YouTube video on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ImeNKft0WaI\">history of Taps<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>My personal favorite part of Memorial Day comes at 3:00 p.m. local time.\u00a0 <strong>3:00 p.m. is a time of personal reflection.<\/strong>\u00a0 A moment to pause and remember those who have had their lives cut short in service of this great land, we call, America.<\/p>\n<p>On this day, let&#8217;s reflect on what is a Hero?\u00a0 The dictionary defines a hero as someone who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.\u00a0 And what about the tern Heroism?\u00a0 Heroism is defined as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vocabulary.com\/dictionary\/heroism\">putting others first<\/a>.\u00a0 Ok, it may not be the dictionary definition; but I like it, and this is my blog.<\/p>\n<p>These definitions do not fit every soldier, sailor, airman, and marine.<\/p>\n<p>I am of the opinion that the term &#8220;Hero&#8221; is overused and its overuse dilutes the sacrifice of those who have died in service to this great land.\u00a0 Today, it&#8217;s in vogue to call everyone in the military a hero.\u00a0 \u00a0<em>Hero&#8217;s are those that go Above and Beyond<\/em>.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s face the facts; I am not a hero.\u00a0 I am a veteran, a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>very proud<\/em><\/span> veteran.\u00a0 I have served my country, with pride and distinction; but a HERO (with a capital H), I am not.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I have never flown a plane into a storm of Flak.\n<figure id=\"attachment_1168\" class=\"thumbnail wp-caption alignright\" style=\"width: 126px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.music.army.mil\/music\/buglecalls\/taps.asp\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1168\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=126%2C177&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Click here to listen to TAPS, a 24 note final farewell.\" width=\"126\" height=\"177\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=214%2C300&amp;ssl=1 214w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=731%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 731w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=157%2C220&amp;ssl=1 157w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=285%2C400&amp;ssl=1 285w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?resize=50%2C70&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dansdigitaldive.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/2873-O-RETIRE-STGC-RUCKER-033.jpg?w=1500&amp;ssl=1 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 126px) 100vw, 126px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"caption wp-caption-text\"><strong>Click here to listen to TAPS, a 24 note final farewell.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li>\n<li>I have never been torpedoed by a U-boat, nor depth charged by an angry destroyer.<\/li>\n<li>I have never had to fire a shot in anger.<\/li>\n<li>I have never been ambushed in the jungle, nor fought house to house in Iraq.<\/li>\n<li>I have never held my buddy at my side; while he died in my arms.<\/li>\n<li>I have never run into a hail of gunfire to help a wounded marine.<\/li>\n<li>I have never had to eat shoe leather boiled in soup for food.<\/li>\n<li>I have never jumped from a helo (helicopter) into the Bearing Sea to rescue a seaman.<\/li>\n<li>I have never stood across from another with muskets aimed at each other.<\/li>\n<li>I have not given my life, a limb, nor my sanity, in the service of this great land.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>** And I give thanks to my lucky stars\u00a0that I\u00a0have never been in similar situations. **<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I have friends who have made the ultimate sacrifice and others who\u00a0have been scarred (either physically and\/or mentally) in service to this great land.\u00a0 <em>They<\/em> are heroes.<\/p>\n<p>The military is full of all kinds of people, our nation&#8217;s military reflects our national culture.\u00a0 A man that, I believe embodies this is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmohs.org\/recipient-detail\/2717\/doss-desmond-t.php\">Desmond T. Doss<\/a>, a conscientious objector who received the Medal of Honor (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.homeofheroes.com\/profiles\/profiles_doss.html\">read his full story<\/a>). He may not fit the mold of dying during in action; but he is without a doubt, a great hero to be remembered on this day of introspection and reflection.<\/p>\n<p>George Custer.\u00a0 Before his death at the Little Big Horn, he was a star officer during the Civil War, argumentatively the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.esquire.com\/news-politics\/news\/a23347\/gettysburg-day-three-custer-070313\/\">savior for the Union at Gettysburg<\/a>.\u00a0 While it is true that he was not an academic type (He finished last in his class at West Point), it is also true that he didn&#8217;t really think much of others opinions.\u00a0 But he was a tactician, the bosses be damned.\u00a0 And it was that intestinal fortitude that saved the Union at Gettysburg.<\/p>\n<p>And how about these guys&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">John Stark; he recruited 400 men and marched to Boston in April, 1775.\u00a0 Then in June, he helped keep the British from flanking the new American militia at a little placed called Bunker Hill.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Nathaniel Greene; a well respected general of the Continental Army.\u00a0 He was one of Washington&#8217;s most trusted and successful generals, credited with a highly successful southern campaign which led to Washington&#8217;s victory at Yorktown, VA.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Father <a href=\"http:\/\/www.milarch.org\/site\/c.dwJXKgOUJiIaG\/b.6597059\/k.D667\/Fr_Capodanno_Biography_Archdiocese_for_Military_Services.htm\">Vincent Capodanno<\/a>, a priest who joined the Navy Chaplain Corps to serve Marines in Vietnam.\u00a0 On Sept, 4, 1967, he was killed while serving his flock of marines in the field.\u00a0 He died of 27 bullet wounds.\u00a0 The mighty warship <a href=\"http:\/\/www.navsource.org\/archives\/06\/06021093.htm\">USS Capodanno<\/a> (DE-1093) was named in his honor.\u00a0 To this day, it is the only US Warship to have a Papal blessing.<\/p>\n<p>These are just a sampling of our\u00a0military Heroes.\u00a0 I encourage you to do a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&amp;ion=1&amp;espv=2&amp;ie=UTF-8#q=police+and+firemen+who+died+above+and+beyond+their+duty\">google search<\/a> and read about our neighbors (Policemen and Firemen) who have gone above and beyond also; they too are heroes.<\/p>\n<p>This is not to say that we shouldn&#8217;t be thankful for our veterans. \u00a0I&#8217;m simply saying we should be careful how we through around the word &#8220;Hero.&#8221;\u00a0 It is a powerful word, with deep meaning to those that have served this great land.\u00a0 So, next time you feel like calling a me a hero and becoming all goo goo eyed, how about just saying &#8220;Thanks for what you do (did) for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">OUR<\/span> country.&#8221;\u00a0 While your at, let the first responders know too.<\/p>\n<p>I encourage you to visit the Congressional Medal of Honor Society <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmohs.org\/\">webpage <\/a>for a gallery of Heroes who have won our nation&#8217;s highest honor.<\/p>\n<p>Our country&#8217;s service members write blank checks payable by their lives. \u00a0Our political leaders should be careful how they cash these checks, as each service members death has impact on countless others. \u00a0If you are a vet, and need help, please visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.va.gov\/landing2_vetsrv.htm\">VA.Gov<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I write to generate discussion. \u00a0What say you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today we find ourselves honoring our fallen heroes, and rightfully so. 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